Obsession isn’t Love❌
Let that one sink in.
I was talking with a friend, he said obsession is love.
I have to correct him with instances and how it’s dangerous for both parties.
If Obsession is Love;
- Why do you hurt the person you love all because you want to keep being with them?
- Why can’t you just wish me well and let me go when I asked for it?
- Why do you threaten to hurt yourself just to manipulate me to stay?
- Why are you not in control of your actions?
There are so many other “Whys” and I can keep going on and on. Anyone that has been with an obsessed partner will understand how dangerous it is for both parties.
Obsession is a mental sickness. An obsessed individual is a sociopath
In as much as you will think they care about you(their partner). I will tell you for free that they don’t.
They are so grounded in the scenario they created themselves and if it doesn’t go as they planned it — they lose it hence hurting you and hurting themselves too.
Doctors in the house, I’m curious too. Is this curable?
Have you encountered a once obsessed partner that was able to deal with it successfully?
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